Comments on: Life’s Spontaniety

by: Melina

Thu, 20 Dec 2007 16:11:40 +0000

very interesting. i’m adding in RSS Reader

by: Deepak Jeswal

Wed, 18 Apr 2007 02:52:26 +0000

Manish - Thanks Yes, I guess to each his own….

Lakshmi - A very warm welcome to my blog. Hope you like my small effort on this webspace Your comments are true, and I strongly agree with the last sentence!

by: Lakshmi

Tue, 17 Apr 2007 15:53:28 +0000

The grass is sometimes greener on the other side. When you are single, you may sometimes yearn for the warmth that family brings, and when you are not, you could yearn for the independence that comes out of not having to share your time with someone else. Both have their own merits and demerits. Ultimately what matters is how happy we are at the end of the day (or life, for that matter).

by: Manish

Thu, 05 Apr 2007 10:17:12 +0000

Talk of settling, some people’s life get “Unsettled” after marriage. Unka kya?

It is bang gamble in which not many succeed. You have learned the hard way, and I think the best way to get settled for you is this way. To each his own. Nice post.

by: Deepak Jeswal

Wed, 04 Apr 2007 05:42:31 +0000

LOL, Priyangini , Dont worry, i m sure u will do fine… Actually, I dont know where I got it wrong, but my intention of the post was not to concentrate only on love/marriage…that was the reason why i mentioned the detailed timetable of the official; it had nothing to do with marriage at all…… The post was in the larger context of life - as comments hv shown above, there has to be spontaneity in life, and that can be with the spouse as well.

Mannat - Thanks a ton

by: priyangini

Wed, 04 Apr 2007 05:22:27 +0000

sirji, kya kar rahe ho, my marraige is not even six months old and you are writing such posts. waise bhi I am having trouble ’settling’ into this role and upar se you bring in your ’spontaneity’ theory.

a lot has been said already so all I will add is that its a matter of choice and everyone should have a right to choose. I love doing all the things you mentioned in your posts, traveling to new places, living life in the moment and the impulsiveness of it all and even I felt marraige will bind me and it is binding me but I don’t mind it because I chose it.

Someday even you might have to make a choice. give this up for ’settling down’ to something which is either more important or means more to you. What is imperative is that one should be at peace with the choice. Marriage is a burden if you haven’t made peace with the choice or if you were not given the right to choose.

by: Mannat

Tue, 03 Apr 2007 21:40:09 +0000

First of off, as always, I was totally lost while reading this post. I so wish I could write as well as u…but I guess its too late now.
Anyways, coming to your post, although well written, I don’t agree with part of it. Being married or not should totally be left to an individual. If u feel that u r enjoying the spontaneity of life, be it so. But please don’t judge marriage by what u have gone though in your life. One person’s bad experience might be some other person’s best experience. I have been married for almost 3 years now, and I feel that this is the best thing that happened to me. EVERYTHING after a while falls into a routine. I agree, so does marriage. But that doesn’t mean that it loses its charm. You have to work on it everyday to keep a fresh scent breathing within the relationship, and that adds to your marriage. Just like you said, “Leave the route that you take daily, and turn your steps into a road that you aren t aware of”. You have to keep the spirits of your marriage alive!

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Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:50:22 +0000

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by: Anz

Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:46:10 +0000

Hmmm….nice post indeed. THe end result is that one should be happy. And knowing you the person you are, just be the way you are (a lil more sanity would be more than welcome )

by: Praney

Tue, 03 Apr 2007 13:56:26 +0000

Of course these are random expressions but look like engraved one. I do agree with you with some disagreements. I think there is somewhat spontaniety in mother nature, like rising of sun, flowing of air, beating of a heart. And failure of any of above means end of life.

The regular business of that officer is so boring. Some time when I revisit some places after long long time, I saw some people doing and living the same way they used to be years back and they will reach at the other end of their lives in the same manner. It is a scary thought for me. I cant be like that ever (may god bless me)

Thats nice that you are a happy person being alone. But I am sure you would be happier the day you bump in your “Supatra”. In the meantime, like it seems you have less responsibility and lil more time to devote, have your ever gave a thought to get engaged in some ‘mission’? I dont know how that idea clicked me but I think you should set a target. Target like serving the socity (in the minimum way you can).

That too was a random thought and I expressed. Dunno how was it !